The Secret Date Society is a group of friends. Right now, it is 4 couples (because that is all we can fit in one car). We decided to start taking our wives on "secret" dates. This usually just means that the girls don't know what is going on. It has been lots of fun, and has been going on since Fall 2008. We usually shoot for once a month or so, and the dates are different sorts of activities. I can't speak for the other guys, but for me, this is a chance to show my wife how much I love and care about her. To have something fun to do, with good friends, and to add some "spice" to the relationship. The girls have all commented that they feel like they are in High School again, and are a little anxious about what is going on. We often joke and tease about the dates, telling them to bring a swimming suit, snow boots, and a bag of potatoes (or any other suggestions to keep them guessing). So, that is the basic scoop. I'll give a play-by-play and example in another post. We just had a secret date this past weekend.